Every Child Oregon

Fostering During the Holidays

Holidays and celebrations are special times for most of us. If you are considering becoming a resource foster parent, or are currently a resource foster parent, you know it’s important to create an inclusive and supportive environment for your new family member. There might be many conflicting feelings that arise around the holidays for both you and the children in your care. 

Here are some tips to help you include everyone, including children in foster care in the celebrations. 

• Open Communication: It’s essential to have open and honest conversations with your children in foster care about their feelings and expectations regarding holidays. Ask them about their past experiences and any traditions they might have enjoyed. This will help you understand their perspective and make them feel valued. 
  
• Involve Them in Planning: Encourage your new family member to participate in the planning of holiday activities like decorating the house, preparing meals, or choosing activities. Involving them will help them feel like an integral part of the family. 
  
• Respect Their Background: They may come from a different cultural or religious background. It’s important to respect and incorporate their traditions into your celebrations. This could be a wonderful opportunity to learn and grow together. 
  
• Create New Traditions: While it’s important to maintain your family traditions, you can also create new ones that include your children in foster care. This could be something simple like a new holiday game or a special meal that everyone looks forward to. 
  
• Be Patient and Understanding: Adjusting to a new family and new traditions can be overwhelming. Be patient and understanding if they need time to adapt. Offer reassurance and support and let them know it’s okay to feel a range of emotions. 
  
• Celebrate Small Moments: Sometimes, the small moments can be the most meaningful. Celebrate the little victories and milestones with your new family member. This will help build a sense of belonging and create positive memories.
  
•  Seek Support: If needed, don’t hesitate to seek support from professionals or support groups. They can offer valuable advice and resources to help you navigate this transition smoothly.
  
  

⛄️ Advice & Stories from a Resource Foster Parent on Celebrating the Holidays: 

We’ve also talked to some long-time resource foster parents about what has helped them with celebrating the Holidays with children in their care. 

⛄️ Help Children Feel at Home This Holiday Season

Fostering during the holidays can be challenging, but with a little intentionality and effort, you can create a warm and welcoming environment for your children in foster care, making your family holidays and traditions even more special. 

Providing a warm, comforting home for children in need can make a profound difference in their lives. If you would like to begin your journey becoming a resource foster parent, Every Child Arkansas is here to help! We can provide you with information, outline the next steps, and get you connected to a local agency who can train and approve you. The first step is to tell us a little about yourself and what opportunities you’re interested in!