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*In this blog, you will note the use of the term “resource parent” as well as “foster parent.” The state of Oregon has made an intentional shift to the term “resource parent,” to ensure foster care is family based, time-limited, culturally responsive and designed to better stabilize families rather than just serving as a placement for children. It reinforces the concept of caregivers for children in foster care as a family-centered resource since the primary goal in Child Welfare is reunification, when possible.
Fostering children can be one of the most fulfilling and life-changing experiences. For children who are in need of stability, love, and care, becoming a foster home /resource home means providing a safe haven during difficult times. The journey to becoming a foster home/ resource home, however, is not an overnight process. It requires dedication, preparation, and a willingness to learn and grow. If you’ve ever thought about becoming a foster parent/resource parent, this guide will walk you through the essential requirements, certifications, and the steps involved in making a difference in a child’s life.
Understanding Foster Home Requirements
To become a foster family/resource family, you must meet certain qualifications that ensure you’re equipped to provide a safe and supportive environment.
General Qualifications for Foster Families:
- Age Requirement: Foster parents/resource parents must be at least 21 years old.
- Stable Income: You don’t need to be wealthy, but a steady source of income is necessary to prove that you can support your own household and a child in foster care.
- Stable Living Situation: Children in foster care need a safe, secure home. This includes having enough space and the ability to provide for their needs.
- No Serious Criminal Background: Background checks are mandatory to ensure the safety of the children.
Key Steps in the Application and Approval Process:
- Initial Inquiry: Reach out to us to say you’re interested in becoming a foster parent/resource parent, and we’ll help you get started.
- Home Study: This in-depth process will include interviews, home visits, background checks, and references to assess your readiness.
- Training: In Oregon, you will complete 27 hours of training in an on-line curriculum called “RAFT” (Resource adn Adoptive Family Training) which we’ll dive into next.
- Approval: Once your home study is complete and you’ve met all the requirements, you’ll be approved to become a foster home/ resource home.
Certifications and Training
While the initial approval process is crucial, ongoing training and certifications are equally important. Children in foster care often come from challenging backgrounds, so foster parents/resource parents must be equipped with the skills to care for them.
Overview of Training Programs for Foster Parents:
- Pre-service Training: Oregon’s Department of Human Services requires all prospective foster parents/resource parents to complete RAFT training to help prepare foster parents/resource parents for what to expect. This training includes topics like child development, trauma-informed care, behavioral management, and working with biological families.
- Ongoing Education: To maintain your foster care certification, you
mayneed to complete a set number of hours of training every year. This could include workshops on new parenting techniques, dealing with emotional trauma, or managing medical needs.
Importance of Ongoing Education and Support: Fostering children is an ongoing learning process. The training programs you’ll participate in, along with support groups and mentorship from other resource families/foster families, are essential to helping you succeed in your role. Staying informed about the latest research and best practices in foster care can make a significant difference in your ability to provide a nurturing environment for a child in need.
Preparing Your Home
Creating a safe and welcoming home environment is crucial for any foster child. They may arrive with little more than the clothes on their backs and need to feel secure, loved, and accepted right from the moment they walk through the door.
Practical Tips for Creating a Safe and Welcoming Environment:
- Prepare a Special Space: Set up a private space for the child, whether it’s a bedroom or a designated area. Personalizing it with their name or favorite colors can help them feel more comfortable.
- Stock Basic Necessities: Have clothing, toiletries, and other necessities ready. It’s also a good idea to keep a few items that may bring comfort, like blankets or stuffed animals.
- Create a Routine: Children in foster care often come from unstable environments. Establishing a predictable routine can help them feel safe and grounded.
Common Home Safety Checks and Adjustments:
- Childproofing: Make sure your home is childproofed to prevent accidents. This includes securing furniture, installing safety gates, and checking for hazards like sharp objects or toxic substances.
- Emergency Plans: Have a clear emergency plan in place for medical, fire, and natural disasters. It’s also important to know the number of local resources like doctors, counselors, and emergency shelters.
- Communication Tools: Foster children may come from backgrounds where trust is difficult to build. Make sure that you foster an open line of communication so that the child feels safe expressing their feelings.
The Impact of Becoming a Foster Home
The impact of becoming a foster home/resource home extends far beyond simply providing shelter. Fostering families/resource families have the ability to change the course of a child’s life in profound ways.
💚 Stories of Transformation and Positive Outcomes: Many foster parents/resource parents report that the experience of caring for a child has changed their lives as much as the child’s. The transformation can be emotional and deeply rewarding. Whether it’s seeing a child grow in confidence, overcome challenges, or reconnect with their biological family, the joy of watching a child heal and thrive is immeasurable.
💚 Long-term Benefits for Children and Families: While the immediate benefits of fostering are clear, there are long-term rewards for both the children and the foster family/resource family. Children in foster care who are given stability and love often grow up to lead productive, healthy lives. For foster parents/resource parents, the relationships they build can last a lifetime, and the joy of being part of a child’s journey can be transformative.
Conclusion: The Impact of Fostering
Becoming a foster home is a journey that requires patience, love, and dedication, but the rewards are immeasurable. Whether you’re looking to open your heart to one child or create a long-lasting impact in your community, foster families/resource families play a critical role in providing hope for children in need. If you’re ready to make a difference, the journey to becoming a foster parent/resource parent is one that will change your life—and the life of a child—forever.
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